Now that you understand how important it is to create a space between yourself and those people or situations that ruffle your feathers, you will begin to notice how this strategy enhances your sense of self worth. You see, while you were trying to be so accommodating on the outside, you were seething with resentment on the inside due to a feeling of being taken for granted. This lessened your self esteem, creating an unflattering view of how you saw yourself in the eyes of others. Thankfully in 2013, you have a new blank canvass to work with, and the picture you paint will be a direct result of your shift in values and personal philosophies.
This, however, does not mean that your work is done – au contraire! Life is constant even when things feel stagnant, and it’s our job to keep up with the changing winds. Thus, situations in your life (primarily in the form of significant others) will continue to bring tests and obstacles to your evolutionary path. Pay attention to what certain characters have to teach you, as you may come to realize that your experience – whether good or bad – will be telling and significant. The messages brought to you by certain planetary configurations above beg the need for you to solidify your sense of personal security. This means building the foundations for a steady and comfortable life, a platform that sustains your material wealth as well as your confidence and personal merit.
The new you set to emerge in 2013 may manifest through the purchase of a new home, or an emotional triumph that gives you a feeling of inner security. Whatever the case may be, you are about to take the teachings of the past couple of years to a whole new level, and apply them to your life in ways that broaden your personal experience. Don’t let the unpredictability of life trip you up, and no matter what unfolds, stay grounded in the sense that you’ve done so much to better yourself. There is absolutely no need to revert back to the old ways of living and being.
Happy New Year Libra!